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This painting is
now
our symbol. Painted by Mary Moon, it
represents our ever-changing diversity, sometimes stormy,
sometimes calm, we are all mixed together to make a beautiful
painting in God's image

This symbol,
made by Fionnaigh, so aptly describes that we are all made in God's
image no matter what our sexuality.
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GalaXies
is a Christian-ish spiritual community for lesbians, gay men, bisexuals
and
transgender people, and our mates!
Our
spiritual core is
what we have found to be of value, affirming, truthful and
fun. In
enjoying ourselves, seeking, interpreting God freshly, we embrace the
diversity of other spiritual paths.
Our Sunday
evening
services are a relaxed journey, creative, rewarding, renewing, casual,
beyond ourselves. We are all learning ...
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John
Shelby Spong - The time has come!
Thursday October 15, 2009
A
Manifesto! The Time Has Come!
I have
made a decision.
I will
no longer debate the issue of homosexuality in the church with
anyone.
I will
no longer engage the biblical ignorance that emanates from so many
right-wing Christians about how the Bible condemns homosexuality, as if
that point of view still has any credibility.
I will
no longer discuss with them or listen to them tell me how homosexuality
is "an abomination to God," about how homosexuality is a "chosen
lifestyle," or about how through prayer and "spiritual counseling"
homosexual persons can be "cured." Those arguments are no longer worthy
of my time or energy.
I will
no longer dignify by listening to the thoughts of those who advocate
"reparative therapy," as if homosexual persons are somehow broken and
need to be repaired.
I
will no longer talk to those who believe that the unity of
the church can or should be achieved by rejecting the presence of, or
at least at the expense of, gay and lesbian people.
I will
no longer take the time to refute the unlearned and undocumentable
claims of certain world religious leaders who call homosexuality
"deviant."
I will
no longer listen to that pious sentimentality that certain Christian
leaders continue to employ, which suggests some version of that strange
and overtly dishonest phrase that "we love the sinner but hate the
sin." That statement is, I have concluded, nothing more than a
self-serving lie designed to cover the fact that
these people hate homosexual persons and fear homosexuality itself, but
somehow know that hatred is incompatible with the Christ they claim to
profess, so they adopt this face-saving and absolutely false statement.
I will
no longer temper my understanding of truth in order to pretend that I
have even a tiny smidgen of respect for the appalling negativity that
continues to emanate from religious circles where the church has for
centuries conveniently perfumed its ongoing prejudices against blacks,
Jews, women and homosexual persons with what it assumes is
"high-sounding, pious rhetoric." The day for that mentality has quite
simply come to an end for me.
I will
personally neither tolerate it nor listen to it any longer. The world
has moved on, leaving these elements of the Christian Church that
cannot adjust to new knowledge or a new consciousness lost in a sea of
their own irrelevance. They no longer talk to anyone but themselves.
I will
no longer seek to slow down the witness to inclusiveness by pretending
that there is some middle ground between prejudice and oppression.
There isn't. Justice postponed is justice denied. That can be a resting
place no longer for anyone. An old civil rights song proclaimed that
the only choice awaiting those who cannot adjust to a new understanding
was to "Roll on over or we'll roll on over you!" Time waits for no one.
I will
particularly ignore those members of my own Episcopal Church who seek
to break away from this body to form a "new church," claiming that this
new and bigoted instrument alone now represents the Anglican Communion.
Such a new ecclesiastical body is designed to allow these pathetic
human beings, who are so deeply locked into a world that no longer
exists, to form a community in which they can continue to hate gay
people, distort gay people with their hopeless rhetoric and to be part
of a religious fellowship in which they can continue to feel justified
in their homophobic prejudices for the rest of their tortured lives.
Church unity can never be a virtue that is preserved by allowing
injustice, oppression and psychological tyranny to go unchallenged.
In my
personal life, I will no longer listen to televised debates conducted
by "fair-minded" channels that seek to give "both sides" of this issue
"equal time." I am aware that these stations no longer give equal time
to the advocates of treating women as if they are the property of men
or to the advocates of reinstating either segregation or slavery,
despite the fact that when these evil institutions were coming to an
end the Bible was still being quoted frequently on each of these
subjects. It is time for the media to announce that there are no longer
two sides to the issue of full humanity for gay and lesbian people.
There is no way that justice for homosexual people can be compromised
any longer.
I will
no longer act as if the Papal office is to be respected if the present
occupant of that office is either not willing or not able to inform and
educate himself on public issues on which he dares to speak with
embarrassing ineptitude. I will no longer be respectful of the
leadership of the Archbishop of Canterbury, who seems to believe that
rude behavior, intolerance and even killing prejudice is somehow
acceptable, so long as it comes from third-world religious leaders, who
more than anything else reveal in themselves the price that colonial
oppression has required of the minds and hearts of so many of our
world's population. I see no way that ignorance and truth can be placed
side by side, nor do I believe that evil is somehow less evil if the
Bible is quoted to justify it. I will dismiss as unworthy of any more
of my attention the wild, false and uninformed opinions of such
would-be religious leaders as Pat Robertson, James Dobson, Jerry
Falwell, Jimmy Swaggart, Albert Mohler, and Robert Duncan. My country
and my church have both already spent too much time, energy and money
trying to accommodate these backward points of view when they are no
longer even tolerable.
I make
these statements because it is time to move on. The battle is over. The
victory has been won. There is no reasonable doubt as to what the final
outcome of this struggle will be. Homosexual people will be accepted as
equal, full human beings, who have a legitimate claim on every right
that both church and society have to offer any of us. Homosexual
marriages will become legal, recognized by the state and pronounced
holy by the church. "Don't ask, don't tell" will be dismantled as the
policy of our armed forces. We will and we must learn that equality of
citizenship is not something that should ever be submitted to a
referendum. Equality under and before the law is a solemn promise
conveyed to all our citizens in the Constitution itself. Can any of us
imagine having a public referendum on whether slavery should continue,
whether segregation should be dismantled, whether voting privileges
should be offered to women? The time has come for politicians to stop
hiding behind unjust laws that they themselves helped to enact, and to
abandon that convenient shield of demanding a vote on the rights of
full citizenship because they do not understand the difference between
a constitutional democracy, which this nation has, and a "mobocracy,"
which this nation rejected when it adopted its constitution. We do not
put the civil rights of a minority to the vote of a
plebiscite.
I will
also no longer act as if I need a majority vote of some ecclesiastical
body in order to bless, ordain, recognize and celebrate the lives and
gifts of gay and lesbian people in the life of the church. No one
should ever again be forced to submit the privilege of citizenship in
this nation or membership in the Christian Church to the will of a
majority vote.
The
battle in both our culture and our church to rid our souls of this
dying prejudice is finished. A new consciousness has arisen. A decision
has quite clearly been made. Inequality for gay and lesbian people is
no longer a debatable issue in either church or state. Therefore, I
will from this moment on refuse to dignify the continued public
expression of ignorant prejudice by engaging it. I do not tolerate
racism or sexism any longer. From this moment on, I will no longer
tolerate our culture's various forms of homophobia. I do not care who
it is who articulates these attitudes or who tries to make them sound
holy with religious jargon.
I have
been part of this debate for years, but things do get settled and this
issue is now settled for me. I do not debate any longer with members of
the "Flat Earth Society" either. I do not debate with people who think
we should treat epilepsy by casting demons out of the epileptic person;
I do not waste time engaging those medical opinions that suggest that
bleeding the patient might release the infection. I do not converse
with people who think that Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans as
punishment for the sin of being the birthplace of Ellen DeGeneres or
that the terrorists hit the United Sates on 9/11 because we tolerated
homosexual people, abortions, feminism or the American Civil Liberties
Union. I am tired of being embarrassed by so much of my church's
participation in causes that are quite unworthy of the Christ I serve
or the God whose mystery and wonder I appreciate more each day. Indeed
I feel the Christian Church should not only apologize, but do public
penance for the way we have treated people of color, women, adherents
of other religions and those we designated heretics, as well as gay and
lesbian people.
Life
moves on. As the poet James Russell Lowell once put it more than a
century ago: "New occasions teach new duties, Time makes ancient good
uncouth." I am ready now to claim the victory. I will from now on
assume it and live into it. I am unwilling to argue about it or to
discuss it as if there are two equally valid, competing positions any
longer. The day for that mentality has simply gone forever.
This is
my manifesto and my creed. I proclaim it today. I invite others to join
me in this public declaration. I believe that such a public outpouring
will help cleanse both the church and this nation of its own distorting
past. It will restore integrity and honor to both church and state. It
will signal that a new day has dawned and we are ready not just to
embrace it, but also to rejoice in it and to celebrate it.
– John
Shelby Spong
American attitudes to gay
marriage
swiftly changing.
April
was a big month for those campaigning for marriage equality in America,
with more states voting to legalise same-sex marriage, and polls
showing attitudes to gay marriage changing.
Last week,
the New Hampshire state Senate voted 13-11 to legalise same-sex
marriage. The legislation will go into effect on 1 January 2010 unless
Governor John Lynch vetoes it. Lynch has said publicly that he opposes
same-sex marriage, but has not commented as to whether he would veto
legislation legalising gay marriage.
Also last week, the Maine
Senate voted 20-15 in favour of “LD 1020”, a marriage equality bill. It
now moves to the House of Representatives. The Senate defeated an
amendment to the bill that proposed putting the question of marriage
equality for same-sex couples before voters.
According to most polls, the Maine electorate is about evenly divided
on the issue.
Maine currently provides same-sex couples with access to limited rights
and benefits through a domestic partner registry.
Three states, Massachusetts, Connecticut and Iowa, currently permit
same-sex marriages.
Also
in April, Vermont legislature overrode Republican Governor Jim Douglas’
veto of legislation legalising same-sex marriage, approving legislation
that will take effect on 1 January 2010.
Meanwhile, in a poll
conducted by CBS News and The New York Times, 42 per cent of Americans
said same sex couples should be allowed to legally marry. That’s up
nine points from last month, when 33 per cent supported legalising
same-sex marriage.
Support for same-sex marriage is now at its highest point since CBS
News starting asking about it in 2004.
Twenty-eight
per cent say same-sex couples should have no legal recognition – down
from 35 per cent in March – while 25 per cent support civil unions, but
not marriage, for gay couples.
Meanwhile, the US House of
Representatives passed the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention
Act, also known as the Matthew Shepard Act, on 29 April with a
bipartisan majority. Supporters of the bill say it would provide local
law enforcement agencies with additional resources to investigate hate
crimes motivated by race, ethnicity, gender, religion, national origin,
sexual orientation, gender identity and disability.
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GalaXies
is an incorporated society. See our objectives.
GalaXies
provides:
Meetings: We meet on
the fourth Sunday of the month
St. Andrew's on The Terrace
(Upstairs Common
Room)
30 The Terrace, Wellington
Time: 17:30
starting with a shared
meal. cafe style.
To
get in touch with GalaXies, see contacts.
You’re
concerned about what the Bible says or what some people think it says?
See our list of helpful websites
for commentaries which are based on the historical/critical method of
interpreting the Bible.
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As part of our
incorporation as a society in 1994, we were required to
provide rules for what we would do. Part of this was a set of
objectives. In August 2000 we looked at these again, and
decided that they
still worked for us.
The objectives are:
- To provide affirming
worship for lesbians, gay men and bisexual, their families and friends
who are Christian or of Christian origin.
- To provide worship
which is inclusive of all who wish to nurture and develop their
spirituality.
- To provide
opportunities for lesbians, gay men and bisexuals to explore faith
through retreats, seminars and workshops.
- To foster support for
gay men, lesbians and bisexuals in and beyond Wellington.
Who are we?
We are an ecumenical
Christian congregation comprised primarily of lesbians
and gay men, although there are a growing number of straight refugees
from other
congregations joining us. We are committed to the priesthood of all
believers,
and our services are led from within the group.
We recognise common
ground between Christianity and other spiritualities and
their different approaches. We are non-judgemantal and open
in theology.
Inclusive language,
concepts and stories
Becasue of the history of
homophobia in society and the Church's negative
attitude to homosexuality, lesbians and gay men experience a range of
difficult
problems in personal and spiritual development.
A few churches are
beginning to appreciate the hetrosexual bias in the
language, concepts and stories used in worship. For the most
part,
however, appropriate affirmation and spiritual nourishment are lacking.
The services offfered by Galaxies attempt
to meet
this need
and are
developing content and forms of worship which might be used by churches
as they
become more inclusive.
They are also providing
an outreach to gay men and lesbians of no church
background who wish to develop their spirituality and find a way to
affirm
values in their lives.
Spirituality - Growing
towards potential being.
For this Galaxies offers:
- A focus on values, on
God.
- A community in which
to find meaning, claim authority, express gay and lesbian culture.
- Liturgy for the
expression and celebration of values.
- Workshops for
spiritual development.
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